World War 2 Letter ~ From Soldier to Wife ~ Birth of a Son
97A letter from a soldier to his wife...
This took place many years ago...1944, in fact...but continues to this day when families are separated due to deployments during times of war or even during peace-time separations.
The fact of this letter being family related gives me the opportunity to fill in a few more details.
The times may have changed and perhaps fewer handwritten letters are being authored these days because of the change in technology, but the sentiments are probably universally felt when a deployed soldier learns of the birth of his son.
The setting: World War 2.
Author of this letter: My husband's father.
He was a pharmacist and an Army Lieutenant stationed at a hospital in England.
World War 2 photo taken in England
Vintage letter...
Here is the letter in it's entirety...
July 5, 1944
Darling,
What a joyful day today. Bruce Eldon has come at last. Oh Sweetheart I'm so happy that I could shout for joy.
The telegram arrived this morning. What does he weigh? etc. How about the particulars? No doubt they are on the way but I'm sure anxious to know what the details are.
I'm so excited today I can hardly write to you. There's so much I have to say to you & yet I don't know how to say it.
Oh Darling. You are so grand. I only regret that I wasn't there to be with you.
I can never thank your father enough for caring for you and all they've done for you since you got back to Monroe.
My Dear. I am today the happiest man on earth.
Remember we have a date July 1, 1945.
Love Forever
Your Husband
Jack
P.S. You can read my letters to our son and tell him how much I love you and how sweet his mother is.
Portion of 1944 handwritten letter
Censor mark on pictures during WW2
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World War 2 postal censorship
My husband's parents had met each other when both were studying to become pharmacists while at Drake University in Iowa.
After graduating from college with his pharmacy degree in hand, Jack was too young at age 20 to be hired. One had to be 21 years old at that time to work as a registered pharmacist.
Drafted into the service of his country during WWII and marrying his college sweetheart, they spent a short amount of time on this side of the Atlantic before he was sent overseas.
During that time many letters and pictures were exchanged as well as postcards.
During WWII prior to letters being sent...especially from a war zone country...there were censors who looked over the communications to make sure that if the letters or pictures fell into enemy hands, no secrets of any military significance would aid in their efforts. Thus, many of the pictures Jack sent to his wife had censor stamps on the back of them.
In some cases (none in our possession) certain words would be marked out of a letter making that word or words unreadable. The letter would then be sent to the recipient and the reader could perhaps understand the intent of the letter even if not every exact word that had been blacked out.
1944 photo of mother and child
Giving Birth in Hospitals in 1944
Times were really different back then compared to today!
In our possession is a receipt for $80.00 from Iowa Methodist Hospital to my future mother-in-law for a "10 day rate."
Imagine having your meals prepared, your bed linens changed and freshened and your baby brought to you for feedings and then being well tended while one rested up from giving birth for a total of 10 days!
Since she was a pharmacist at that same hospital, perhaps she was given a discounted rate?
Can you imagine a price of $80.00 for even a one day stay today? That would be an unheard of bargain!
In any case, new mothers were pampered compared to the way they are treated today where a hospital stay for giving birth is almost like experiencing a revolving door.
- How long will I stay in the hospital after birth? - Labor and Birth
Postpartum hospital stays today.
Western Union Cablegram from 1944
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Western Union Cablegram
Back in 1944 the fastest way to deliver important messages (text messaging and emails were not yet invented) was to send a Western Union Cablegram.
We have a receipt from Iowa Methodist Hospital paid by Emma's mother to send a cablegram to Emma's soldier husband to notify him that he had become a new father. Things were abbreviated as much as possible because each word cost money.
Succinct and to the point, the message relayed was this: BRUCE ARRIVED BOTH FINE. It cost $8.86 to send this message and it actually transpired a few days after the actual birth although paid for on the exact date. Not exactly instant messaging!
The letter from Jack to his "Darling" wife was in response to this cablegram.
Mother and baby son
While Jack served his country during World War II overseas, Emma and her baby son had moved back home to live with her parents.
This was a fairly common thing back then. Families pulled together and supported one another during times of separation or stress such as was caused by this world war.
Obviously having her own parents to advise in the rearing of her son would also have eased the transition into the complexities of motherhood. After all...they were already experienced at being parents!
Frequent letters and pictures and descriptions of the events surrounding the milestones in his son's life kept Jack updated and longing for the day to be able to see these things for himself and also begin to participate in his son's upbringing.
Pictures such as this one of healthy mother and son would have pleased him.
Family reunited after WWII
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Soldier returns home
This day that probably seemed so far off finally happened.
Jack returned home in early December of 1945.
His son was a toddler of 16 months and was walking and talking.
Seen here with his wife and child their entire lives lay before them and the future looked rosy.
But it was not to be!
With his darling wife in the car with him and his baby boy left at home with the grandparents, they were driving to get his discharge papers from the army when a malfunction in the car caused an accident to occur.
There were no seat belts back in those days and the car rolled on top of him literally crushing the promising life out of him. Emma suffered severe back injuries but survived. This was on December 3, 1945...three years later to the exact date of their marriage!
Her parents subsequently had an apartment built onto their existing home. That is where Emma and her son lived for several years prior to her being able to go back to work as a pharmacist and start leading a more independent life for her small nuclear family of two.
Dreams of a "happily ever after" with her sweetheart Jack would now have to reside in memories of their short times spent together.
Life holds no promises for anyone of us. Live and love each day as if it were our last and this Emma seemed to do with the rest of her life. She wrung the joy out of each day as it presented itself and gave her son the benefit of her optimistic outlook on life. I can still imagine seeing my mother-in-law's smile. It seldom left her face!
U.S. Postage stamps in 1944
Summary
Perhaps some of you have special letters, World War 2 or others, from soldiers celebrating the birth of their son or daughter? Hang onto them for posterity reasons and also to bring a smile to one's face when reading. These vintage letters are special indeed!
Was anyone in your family a soldier during World War II?
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Thanks, I really enjoyed your hub. Definitely heartfelt.
What a beautiful sad story! Emma was strong because I believe that "Only the strong survives. "She was so young but swallowed a bitter pill.
That was so interesting!
such a miserable day mite..your soule goes to rest and peace who lost their life in war..least we forget them,.....
Peggy, I'm just not an tea and cookies socializer any more. Had enough of that on the "rubber chicken circuit" when I was in politics. The one incentive to join would be access to their genealogical files and other resources not available to non-members, and it'd be as a Member At Large, so whether there is or isn't a chapter in my area isn't an issue. ;D
Oh, it is and I am! More research reveals that what appears to be the earliest immigrant ancestor in that line arrived from Scotland several decades before the Revolutionary War and his son, my ancestor, served from Kent County, MD. Another addition to the list of qualifiers for D.A.R. membership IF I had any desire to join that organization, which I don't. lol! ;D
Your comments remind me that I need to get in touch with a WWII war museum in Norfolk, England, that houses (among many other things) files and memorabilia on the American air force squadrons that were stationed in the area in 1942 and '43. I'm hoping they can identify the location of what is supposedly a manor house behind a 5th cousin and his buddies in a photo taken on a much-needed break from bombing Germany. By the time his wife and I asked him about it 60 years after the fact, all he could remember was they'd been told it was owned by a "cider baron" and was somewhere in Devonshire. (Never mind Cousin was a Navigator... lol!) Personally, after watching many episodes of "Inspector Morse" and "Inspector Lewis", I suspect the "manor house" was actually a building at one of the colleges at Oxford.
Enuff of that! I would've responded earlier, but yesterday got a hit on a post I left on a genealogy board TWO years ago! So don't despair that the leads you put out there about your own ancestors go unnoticed. Sometimes it just takes awhile for the right person to find them. ;D
Peggy, after (15?) years I'm still trying to get my head around how and why the internet works at all! Much like an ex-boss who was fascinated by fax machines. lol!
That said, when I wrote the hubs and blog posts about my ancestors I mainly did it to make the information accessible to my kids and other relatives. The surnames Savage and Sowerby are quite common, so it was quite a surprise to be contacted by "new" cousins! The key, I think, was including specific information that only another descendant would use as search terms.
btw, if your paternal gf was in England in WWI, have you contacted the the UK's Imperial War Museum to see what information it might have about him or his unit? Just a thought.
Oops. I should know by now your *mother* would not throw out old letters and such!
Glad to hear those letters from your gf's war buddy are now in the Frisco TX HistSoc museum where not only other relatives can read them, but also those researching that period.
I've been contacted by several "new" distant cousins I wouldn't have found otherwise who read my English Rose hub or one of several blog posts about that branch of the family. I also found an old letter in a stack from relatives in England that I determined wasn't about anyone in our family. Thanks to the internet I was able to track down a descendant who was thrilled to not only have the letter itself but the family information contained in it. ;D
Peggy, I used to nag my mother for keeping practically every letter she ever received from not only relatives but "birthday twins" in almost every state in the union. Also the obituaries of family, friends and neighbors. Am I ever thankful she didn't didn't heed my advice to "toss 'em"! I still find interesting tidbits going through them almost 30 years after her death. For that reason it pains me no end when I think of the treasures that were lost forever when your mother tossed that suitcase in her garage. Oh my....
The same can be said of old photos, of course. Besides the letters and newspaper clippings, my mother left hundreds of snapshots and old family photos, many of whom I wouldn't identify until decades later. Makes me want to cry when I hear of a deceased's family throwing away boxes of old pix simply because they had no idea who they were of (or when or where they were taken) and thought it a waste of time to try to find out. My kids know I'll come back and haunt them if they do that after I'm gone.
If family members have NO interest in keeping such items - letters, clippings, photos - every town of any size has a genealogical or historical society or museum that will be thrilled to have them, and will even come to the deceased's home to pick them up!
Peggy, your mother-in-law was blessed with unimaginable fortitude which, as you said, came from being surrounded by love. Many "war brides" weren't so lucky.
Yes, it's hard to believe now in the days of "drive-through deliveries", but in the 1940s it was common for women to remain in the hospital for 10 days after giving birth. Same for that $80 hospital bill which would barely cover the cost of a few hospital-issued Band-Aids today!
I only have one WWII letter from a second cousin, but DO have a treasure trove of letters from a great-grandmother as well as several letters from my mother's cousins in England. Also Xerox copies of two letters written in the 1830s by a however-many-ggm in frontier PA, as well as transcripts of dozens of letters to and from cousins in another branch that a descendant found in the attic of the home passed down through several generations. One is from a ggm that verifies her marriage date that I couldn't otherwise verify because the West VA courthouse where it was recorded was torched during the Civil War.
And although it's not a letter per se, one 7th great-uncle was a Rev War hero of such renown that his journals have been published on the internet. What a pleasure it was one Friday evening to read his accounts of settling an uninhabited area of SW Pennsylvania in his own words! I felt as if 220+ years fell away and I was right there with him in that log cabin in the mountains! ;D
All that danger and then wiped out by a car crash- so sad. War was tough but you didnt expect to die in the peace when so young and fit
What a great story there Peggy. Votes up. I grandpa was in WWII. This was a great read and I do thank you. Take care.
I was fascinated by the background you provided for this letter. Such family memories are worth preserving.
What a touching and tragic story! You tell it well and the pics are great. Life is not fair for sure and we have to appreciate what we have while we have it.
Oh how sad, that car crash must have been after all the waiting during the war. Ghastly.! You wrote the story so well. I take my hat off to you.
Thanks for sharing
The story is very sweet but sad.
By a strange coincidence Pat's father-in-law was also a pharmacist who served in WW2 - but in the British forces. He survived and lived a long life , mostly running his own shop - but with 4 children, one of them Pat's Wonderful Husband.
A wonderful and inspiring hub page. I love the photos and the letter. I was saddened with the tragic loss of Mr. Woods. Your hub has touched my heart. It's amazing how love travels to great distances. I was saddened today with the news of Walter Reed hospital closing. A great landmark that has cared for our war wounded for many years. Your hub is awesome, Peggy.
Oh, my goodness, Peggy! I'm so sad for this...even so many years later...what a shame!! such beautiful people; longing and loving from a distance. A beautiful child who, just for a fleeting moment in time, was able to be with his father...and poor Emma...what a tragedy to have struck. Such beautiful photos; and the history of your family. These are treasures to hold onto for a lifetime.
I cannot even fathom an $80.00 bill for a TEN day hospital stay...amazing.
I'm so glad that Emma was able to live with her parents; that kind of support is priceless.
You have in your possession valued pieces of ephemera to help recall this fateful story.
What a thoughtful and reminescent hub, Peggy. Beautiful, yet bittersweet, memories.
Peggy,
Your Hub is so beautifully written and presented, it is such a shame that it represents a tragedy of this type. When I started reading, I thought that your husband's father was going to end up being killed in the War, perhaps in the Normandy landings, soon after having written and sent the letter. While that would of course have been incredibly tragic, to have survived the war and yet to have died in such a nondescript way in a sense makes it even more...inexplicable and tragic.
Peg, you are such an inspiration. I have bundles of letters written between my mother and father during WWII, and many photos, but have done nothing to preserve or catalog them.
This is another mesmerizing and unforgettable addition to your collection of family stories.
A very sad destiny. Coming through the war and this had to happened. Thank you for sharing.
Letters from the war are some of my favorite pieces of history. I just finished a book called Letters Home, which is a collection of letters from an American woman home to her family. She lived and worked in post World War II Japan, as one of the only women on the team that went through all of the Bank of Japan's assets. Great read! http://lettershomethebook.com
The accolade is well deserved.
I haven't read your latest hub yet, but certainly will and I thank you for adding a link to my own hub. Yes, our veterans are under so much stress and I worry about them having difficulty adjusting when they come home.
Am nominating this for the "Best All Around Hub" Hubbie Award. It touched my heart so much, the photos were beautiful, it was a great historical piece and the theme is universal. Thanks so much for sharing it on Hub Pages.
Aaaah, I have goosebumps! That letter is so sweet. This Hub is fantastic, Peggy W. Thank you so much for sharing this story with us!
Peggy yes we do tend to forget those left behind to struggle and particularly so early in life. Makes me think also how we forget our wounded veterans and families - wounded in both body, mind and soul. We tend to forget way to easily.
A great tribute and well written piece of family history.You should explore this more and think about publishing. Voted up.
As to your question about soldiers in WWII.We had more sailors than soldiers. I think I had a cousin I knew who was in WWII and Korea. His brother was in the Navy, my brother was in the Navy as were two brothers-in-law.
Great Hub - I think your right, even though letters like that are far and few between because of todays technology I believe the feelings of our deployed military are probably the same. Save that letter for your children and their children. It is truely a family treasure
Hi, what a wonderful letter, but such a tragic ending, it seems that we are all doing it at the moment, I am going through loads of pictures and letters from the second world war, trying to tie in who was who, fascinating to do, and I don't know about you, but time seems to stop when you are surrounded by these old memories and stories, its a strange feeling, great hub, really interesting, cheers nell
Peggy a delightful story on one hand but so sad on the other. Brought me back to some of the stories of some of my own relatives who died so young in war. A great memorial that died for us - lest we forget.
Dearest Peggy W,
What a lovely tribute to a man who died too young. It is nice to know you are keeping the memory alive in his honor.
At this very moment I am editing the lengthy (and fascinating) memoir of an amazing gentleman who fought in WWII.
As a family and social historian himself, many such letters, telegrams, military papers, oil portraits, medals, photographs, etc. spanning three centuries have been given to him for safe keeping. Now in his senior years, we are compiling them so they are never lost.
The number of tragedies our ancestors and their families faced on almost a daily basis is unimaginable today. My heart just breaks on every page. And yet, there is such hope and optimism in each story.
Thank you so much for sharing. Blessings always, Earth Angel
Fascinating trip back into time! Thank you for sharing such a rich retrospective on the way things were. It's hard to imagine the government redacting personal mail nowadays, but that was a different time.
Beautiful hub but so sad that after surviving the brutalities of war this brave soldier died so horribly. But the letters and the photographs were so wonderful that it still lifted the spirits. Many thanks for sharing these windows into history.
This was so sad. But I am glad to know this from you. Memories never end by the time. I love something vintage and I find this from your hub. No wonder you still keep this letter. Well done, Peggy. Vote it up!
Prasetio
such a beautiful article/story Peggy thank you for sharing a piece of you, your husbands and your mother in laws life with us!
were't those dresses of both emma as a mother and her mother holding her just the most beautiful!! and that hat! I need one just like it :)
much love to you
barbara b
What a touching story. Reminds me the days when my late dad tells story about the time when World War 2 was at its peak and my granpa was a part of the guerrilla.
I cried all the way through this already knowing Jack was going to die so young, and yet Emma's spirit and the support of her loving family was truly uplifting. And the photos and letter truly do show off the depths of love that ran through this family and how happy they were in the short amount of time they did have together.
Thanks so much for sharing this. It's unfortunate that many military families are still experiencing the hardships of war.
I also found your comparisons of the type of contact available back then compared to today, and also the costs for hospital care and telegrams very interesting. The cost of that brief message was almost the same as the cost of a day in the hospital!
Another wonderful Part 2 story, although sad, they both were so happy in the short time they were together, that makes all the difference...Thanks Peggy for sharing.
Bruce was always special and still is today. A delightful story.
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Peggy W Hub Author 4 weeks ago
Hello Hady Chahine,
The words in the WW2 letter were certainly heartfelt. Thanks for your comment on this hub concerning the past but which affects families in similar ways even today.
Of course modern communications have become speeded up and improved since those days with the exception of hand-written letters. Those will always be superior to emails and texts, in my opinion. Something about being able to hold those pieces of paper that were labored over with love that has greater meaning.